difficult child has a therapist's appointment tomorrow. The last time we were there (and the time before that), the doctor assigned a "written" assignment for difficult child to make him see in writing how hurtful he's being when he says the things he does, and his negativity. Now, I'm not saying that I don't agree with him, BUT how do I get difficult child to do it? We already have authority issues, not to mention he HATES to write. I've gotten two little things written, but the doctor wasn't happy when we went the last time and difficult child had written nothing. I view this as just one more way to have conflict with difficult child. I don't know what to say to the doctor when difficult child hasn't done it. I feel like a child in school and I didn't do as I was told! What can I say to him to get him to understand that this isn't working on many levels?