Ok we have narrowed it down, the autism doesn't drive me nuts, it's the bipolar. My six yr old difficult child got sucidal so I told them no more antidepressants. they up'd seroquel and depakote. All was absolutely PERFECT last month, we actually ENJOYED each other during spring break. Now he won't listen to therapist or me (AGAIN) should I ask for lithium?? should I just crawl under a rock?? aren't these medications suppose to STOP the mood swings??? By the way, Kansas does have much better resources than Georgia for those of you who remember I moved, however the weather stinks!!!!