Hi all, I can't believe I finally stumble upon this portal. To cut a very long story short, we are an asian family with 3 kids living in Asia. My girl is 22, son 20 and my youngest son is 9. My 20 yr old son has clinical depression, refuses help and medication apart from seeing his counsellor occasionally. The whole family is very affected by his behavior of not going to school nor get a job as he's in his room all day, has terrible sleeping hours, and blaming us for his depression. He often talks about wanting to die though he hasn't attempted. Things have gotten so painful especially when he picks on me by implying I am a terrible parent. What disturbs me is that my son is into gay porno and I have found evidence of it lying around. On top of that, I also found him talking to himself very audibly in his locked room. In my country, an adult has to agree to treatment inorder for any hospital to ward him. I am extremely worried that he is becoming schizophrenic. I am also worried how this would affect my youngest as both boys are close. On top of all these, I am concerned that my youngest may stumble upon his brother's porno materials. Pls advice if we should separate ourselves from my depressed son.