OK - so we had a disastrous family counseling session.... THEN I had a meeting scheduled with the state people. They called me to confirm the meeting time - I told them that as per therapist, we needed to get the school "on board" to hold difficult child to a higher standard. AFTER THAT - we were supposed to have another family session with the therapist. BUt INSTEAD - I received a letter today indicating that the upcoming meeting with the state is going to be a JOINT session with both state and county people including therapist and psychiatrist - but not the school....and not husband. I am feeling railroaded. Why wouldn't this have been mentioned the other day when they called to confirm? ???? I'm very angry and suspicious. Feels like more game-playing.