When our difficult child's grow up and (hopfully) have their own families, what will they remember about their childhoods? Will they remembr the good times that we have together as a family? You know, the camping, the picnics, the movies, etc. Or will they only remember the bad times? All the yelling, feeling like the easy child's were more loved, all the bad feelings in the house? I would like to think they will remember the good times and forget the bad, but the bad seem to so much more frequent. Does anyone else ever start thinking about this out of the blue?