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losttheplot
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MY difficult child has done it this wk...he finally got me to cry after 7 yrs of not losing it.... his behavior is escalating to the point where we are scared of him and he is a walking time bomb... easy child is now wetting the bed every night cause she is too scared to walk past his bedroom to go to the toilet......she is hiding behind me whenever he is home......
She has learned that anything we do together including a trip to Nana's must be kept a secret so as not to get her hurt when he hits her in the back or stomach in retaliation.
he has ripped kids work at class and hit another girl in th head(she went home cause she was dizzy)... They say he is acting silly most of the day..... he went into PCs room last night with scissors and cut the hair off every doll she owns and then hid it all in the drawers....
when i was putting clothes away I found it and questioned him.....he said i never did it...then he said she made him do it.... then he smiled and said ahh well.... I left the room in tears and he told me to shut the F&*% up cause he wanted to go to sleep.... and went to sleep.....
I broke down and was to the point of having him committed....this morning he didn't apologize but told me that he doesn't care about anyone else stuff, that he will break whatever he wants and than as long as his stuff is ok who the F cares.......
easy child is too scared to sleep in her own room and is now in my bed every night.....I only have to raise my voice and she loses it and cant be consoled for ages......she is to tears and overly emotional.....he made my belt into a whip and went after her and started to whip her and she freaked... he has threatened to kill her and tells her every 5 mins he hates her......
I wonder where in the world I have gone wrong?..... why cant i seem to get through to him? he has no emotion...he just stands there and looks into my eyes and either laughs or turns off.....i am losing this battle and I feel like If i cant get thru this we might just lose the whole War.....
I have been reading up on sibling abuse and didn't realize that its more common that child abuse......but less noticed cause we chalk it up to rivalry...well this is past rivalry...this is emotional, physical ... and I have no where else to turn....
I am ready for a nervous break down I think...... and I just need to vent and know if anyone has been here and if they made it thru maybe we ill too.....
She has learned that anything we do together including a trip to Nana's must be kept a secret so as not to get her hurt when he hits her in the back or stomach in retaliation.
he has ripped kids work at class and hit another girl in th head(she went home cause she was dizzy)... They say he is acting silly most of the day..... he went into PCs room last night with scissors and cut the hair off every doll she owns and then hid it all in the drawers....
when i was putting clothes away I found it and questioned him.....he said i never did it...then he said she made him do it.... then he smiled and said ahh well.... I left the room in tears and he told me to shut the F&*% up cause he wanted to go to sleep.... and went to sleep.....
I broke down and was to the point of having him committed....this morning he didn't apologize but told me that he doesn't care about anyone else stuff, that he will break whatever he wants and than as long as his stuff is ok who the F cares.......
easy child is too scared to sleep in her own room and is now in my bed every night.....I only have to raise my voice and she loses it and cant be consoled for ages......she is to tears and overly emotional.....he made my belt into a whip and went after her and started to whip her and she freaked... he has threatened to kill her and tells her every 5 mins he hates her......
I wonder where in the world I have gone wrong?..... why cant i seem to get through to him? he has no emotion...he just stands there and looks into my eyes and either laughs or turns off.....i am losing this battle and I feel like If i cant get thru this we might just lose the whole War.....
I have been reading up on sibling abuse and didn't realize that its more common that child abuse......but less noticed cause we chalk it up to rivalry...well this is past rivalry...this is emotional, physical ... and I have no where else to turn....
I am ready for a nervous break down I think...... and I just need to vent and know if anyone has been here and if they made it thru maybe we ill too.....