My oldest sister has a son with huge behavioral disorders, has been labeled at school, put in a ward at hospital for a while, been tested for ADHD and tested positive, ect... The problem is that my sister won't do the work at home it takes to "deal" with her child but then gets all upset when she has to rush him to the hospital when he's out of control. While she's there, she plays the concerning mother card but a week later at home, things are back to the same old thing. The only thing she does speradically is the thearpy sessions. He's my nephew and I can't stand to see him that way when I know personally that way more could be done for him. My sister really loves her son. Unfortunately, she puts her wants and needs first because life has just been so cruel to her and she deserves a little happiness. I'm sorry, going out to concerts, bars, and drinking with friends are fine but your child comes first. Just curious to see what you guys have to say. Family has intervened several times but does not help.