We are moving into a new apartment tomorrow and both difficult children will be there. I have a feeling they won't be much help. They can help me carry stuff but who knows what their attitudes will be like. It can change from minute to minute. We are also giving away our kitty cat. We have had him for six years, since he was a kitten. It is going to be a very emotional day for difficult child 1 and me. difficult child 2 will be indifferent. We are giving him up for adoption and it is going to be quite traumatic for my cat (Who hates strangers) and especially for difficult child 1. They are very close. I am dreading tomorrow. I just want to get it over with!