I have been thinking.....and thinking.....and thinking. I think everyone opinion and advice has me second guessing me going forward with therapist and neuro psychiatric assesment. the Social Worker keeps telling me that the neuro pysch will find something, that there is something definately wrong with difficult child. That scared me in a few ways, the majority of my scaredness is, what if its not as obvious as the text book symptoms. Meaning, if they dont find an obvious "label" for difficult child, will they just pick one that sorta fits and toss me out the door with a script? What are the chances I walk outta there with "he's fine, there is nothing wrong with him, you all just need some therapy to fix his "attitude". I feel like with all the talk of overdiagnosing ADHD and such that there is no way I will walk outta there without a "label" Do people ever get a "difficult child is fine, no known issues" diagnoses?