KFld
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My bff Jill just called me. My h called her on his way to counseling. He told her he thinks I'm doing this because I have never really had another relationship besides ours and I feel I need to experiment elsewhere?????? He then told her that he needs to know what I'm going to do soon because he can't keep waiting around and he doesn't want to be alone for the holidays, so if I'm not interested in working this out, he needs to start looking.
First of all, the farthest thing from my mind is finding someone else at this point, 2nd of all I have been in other relationships before him, though ours was the healthiest if you can believe that, and 3rd of all, if he needs to find someone before the holidays then he can go ahead and start looking.
Jill told him to make sure he discusses all of these things with the counselor. Boy would I love to be a fly on the wall today!!!!!!
Oh and he also told her that he's been attempting to get me to go places with him, but I haven't been interested. Well gee let's see, you have been to one counseling session, we haven't even resolved anything as far as our marriage, never mind getting to the point of being friends yet, but I should be willing to go places with him and do things.
There are moments I miss him and moments that I think, run run as fast as you can while you have the chance :hammer: :faint:
First of all, the farthest thing from my mind is finding someone else at this point, 2nd of all I have been in other relationships before him, though ours was the healthiest if you can believe that, and 3rd of all, if he needs to find someone before the holidays then he can go ahead and start looking.
Jill told him to make sure he discusses all of these things with the counselor. Boy would I love to be a fly on the wall today!!!!!!
Oh and he also told her that he's been attempting to get me to go places with him, but I haven't been interested. Well gee let's see, you have been to one counseling session, we haven't even resolved anything as far as our marriage, never mind getting to the point of being friends yet, but I should be willing to go places with him and do things.
There are moments I miss him and moments that I think, run run as fast as you can while you have the chance :hammer: :faint: