Hi everyone, I just joined the group today.
My son is 19 and competed his freshman year of college this spring. He did well in school both semesters. In May he and I had a talk before he left for a 2 week ski bum trip out west. He told me that he didn’t use drugs or alcohol during high school, but that he did in college and he was relieved to tell me he said, as we are pretty close. I didn’t say much to him at the time, probably because I was in shock. Lately he’s been crabbier, and my husband and I have put some pieces together.
My husband and I just found a pipe and marijuana in our son’s car this morning. Left it there cuz we weren’t ready to talk to him yet, but want to very soon. We want to get some sort of plan agreed upon between the two of us. I am sick to my stomach and feel so unsure of what to do. He’s never given us a reason not to trust him until now.
My son is 19 and competed his freshman year of college this spring. He did well in school both semesters. In May he and I had a talk before he left for a 2 week ski bum trip out west. He told me that he didn’t use drugs or alcohol during high school, but that he did in college and he was relieved to tell me he said, as we are pretty close. I didn’t say much to him at the time, probably because I was in shock. Lately he’s been crabbier, and my husband and I have put some pieces together.
My husband and I just found a pipe and marijuana in our son’s car this morning. Left it there cuz we weren’t ready to talk to him yet, but want to very soon. We want to get some sort of plan agreed upon between the two of us. I am sick to my stomach and feel so unsure of what to do. He’s never given us a reason not to trust him until now.