My difficult child has been inpatient (again) for just over 3 weeks now. We spoke with him a week in, during a family counseling session. He was very down and all of his responses were about proving to us this, and that. It was VERY obvious he was doing this for us and not himself. Well we all know that wont work! Last week the family counselor asked if we could skip our family session so he could work 1:1 with-him because he continues to struggle. Friday, difficult child didn't call us for his weekly phone call. Today we find out hes been cheeking his medications!! WHEN is he going to get serious about all of this?! I'm sick to my stomach knowing we're paying for this stay and he's just blowing it off. he might as well say look mom! Watch as I light thousands of dollars on fire and throw them in the air!!! My hubby and I have decided he's not coming home when he gets out or leaves. We will help him pay up front costs to get into a sober living, then probably wean our portion over a month or two so he gradually pays it on his own. He is going to FLIP when he finds out.