My son is going to be 26 in 5 days, he has never held a job for long than a couple of months, ever. He always gets fired for stealing, smoking, goofing off, or just because he can not get along. He lived with my ex-husband, just sitting in the house waiting for the opportunity to get high. I have had him sent to the hospital for mental evaluations and he has been diagnosed bi-polar and schizophrenic. He refuses to take any medication. Says that it is all stupid. His father evicted him a few weeks ago and I got a call from the police department that he was found out of it on drugs in only his jeans and socks and that they took him to the hospital. I went to the courthouse to get a court order for mental treatment and the judge denied it. but the judge was able to track him down to the homeless shelter. He has been calling me all day everyday for the last week, and I do not answer. This is not his first time at the shelter, and it is a rough place. In the past I have done everything I can think of to help, but he will not try. He always says that I have not every tried to help him. He wants me to just give him a car and a place to stay for nothing. I feel like I am missing something, like I should be able to do something to assist him or get him help, and I feel so guilty that he is in this situation. I feel like by blocking him out of my life, I am really just waiting for him to die. The weird thing is, he seems to know this is how I feel and he confronts me with it. I don't feel safe around him, because he is so angry with me. I don't block the shelter's phone number because as long as my phone is ringing, I know he is still alive.... I am just not sure what to do.