My daughter cut off contact with me four months ago because i said no to signing for an apt. Then I told her how I have felt for the last nine years as I gave over and over to "help" her. I have asked twice to speak to my granddaughters. No response I've sent gifts for granddaughters for birthday and Christmas. No response. I'll send a box for granddaughters for Valentine's day. The only response I've had for four months is when I sent a text on her birthday. She responded "thank you, mom". My question is should I ask again to speak to my granddaughters? I'd love to speak tothem, but I don't want toget involved in her stuff again. I'm enjoying the peace. Also there's a part of me that feels like I'm begging. I've spent so many years trying to please her. I don't iike that feeling of again cowering to her. I'd love to hear y'all's opinions.