So, I was at my "2nd home" (my run-away place) as husband calls it the other night and it was, as always filled with-kids. There is one perticuler difficult child (?) there that I have told repeatedly not to do what difficult child was doing. (It can lead to complete chasos!!) So once again I told difficult child to not do that and difficult child's parent was not happy. (Yes, parent was right there and made no comment to actions by child) Then made a comment that I scolded the difficult child. And who was I to scold? Told head honcho at my 2nd home and was told that it was ok to tell others not to mis-behave. Most of the kids most of the time are left unattended by parents. Everyone there says I should by scared of these parents? What do you all think?