My husband and I are going to make an appointment with-our atty to draw up some kind of POA or guardianship for difficult child, since he turns 18 in Dec. We want to be able to make him take his medications, take surprise drug tests, and somehow, not wipe out our assets if he hurts or kills someone after he gets his license. He will live at home until he graduates from HS. He is a rising Jr. He never did get a job this summer ... he started the search way too late. He cuts grass for his girlfriend's mom once every 3 wks or so. And we occasionally pay him for work around the house. But he's not a hard worker. Sigh. Don't know how he's going to even afford 1/2 apt rent when the time comes.