Well after moving out in a huff to another family's home (which also has rules), difficult child called Sturday nite and said "um, if it is ok, I am coming home tonite". I was calm and collected and asked why. He said he just would rather be at home. I asked him if he had decided that this just wasn't for him right now and he said, "yeah, for now". He came home, we went over house rules, we allowed his input and have all come to an agreement. We also told him that bouncing in and out when he gets mad and then gets over it won't fly. We told him that we want nothing more than for him to save his money, continue to mature and one day fly out of the nest on his own. He seemed relieved and seems quite happy to be home. Thought I would update you!