So after all the denial and pain that everyone goes through with false promises, anger, and after being played a million times, we decide it is inpatient or out of the house. Now what do we do? Are there any good ways to do this? what if she comes pounding on the door in the middle of the night? Are within our legal rights to kick her out? Basically i have only 2 questions, Is it legal? and is there anything we should know from your experiences about it? oh yes, she is 19. We as parents are divorced and she is living with ex wife, but we are (finally) united in this.