My son is 24 and his girlfriend is 21. They have been dating for 1 year and 1 month. The first month when they were dating, I notice she was coming over every day. Her visit would avg about 8 hours per day through the week and 12 hours per day on weekends. Then I ask his girlfriend do you notice a pattern that you been coming over every day for the past month? And it feels like you moved in. She look confused and hurt. She started to cry and couldn't understand why couldn't come over every day. So like a fool, I gave in to her because she was crying. So I told her never mind, forget what I said. Go ahead and keep coming over like you been doing. Then 6 months when by and she still was coming over 7 days per week. So I figured I would try again and this time hope to be stronger. I ask her and my son if we can talk at the kitchen table. I then explain to both of them, sorry but I really don't like anyone coming over every day. Even told them I wouldn't like my brothers, sisters, uncles, or anyone to come over every day and stay 10 hours per day. I have nothing against you but I don't like anyone coming over 7 days per week. Then I suggested she visit 4 days per week and my son can visit the other 3 days if they have to see each other 7 days per week. Well, she didn't like that and then started to cry and bad mouth me. But she finally agree to visit 4 days per week. Well it's now 6 months later. When my son and she got back from eating last night. I ask both of them if we can talk about the agreement we made 6 months ago because it's not working out. Because she was only missing 1 day per week not the 3 days we agreed too. Before I could say another word. She walked by me without looking at me or saying a word. Then she walked out the door while slamming it behind her. UPDATE: UPDATE:UPDATE:UPDATE: Its now been a week and she came over that following Monday. I was sitting on couch and by the time I could say "Hi" to her. She was almost was in my son's bedroom upstairs after running up the stairs. She didn't come over the next 2 days. Which its now Thursday. My son told me he was going there after work today too. She was allowed to come over Monday through Thursday but only came over Monday. My son been going over her house after he got home from work at 3:00pm . I think she so upset that wasnt allowed to come over 7 days per week that she decided not to come over at all. Very strange..