Ok, I read they can have anxiety and have issues with peers esp as you all said. My daughter will make a promise and the next day when the time comes cancel it( well, even when it had to do with us on Christmas bahumbug) . So this girl is a lot like her but she has health issues and hasnt actually been around her in years. Is it anxiety that she doesnt want to go all sudden? But yet my daughter is willing to go to the store today but I wont take her if shes gonna break her promise to the girl. I may be wrong but the other times I caved. Now, I know shes special but she still needs to learn wright from wrong and about trying etc. As I said before my daughter doesnt care about going to the store with us or even walking isles away from us, she just wont talk to kids or adults. Huge crowds dont bother her - shes willing to still go get whatever she wants from the store no matter the wall to wall of people. I feel so bad for this girl whos been trying.. and shes trying to understand. Some say just force my daughter to go out once in a while anyways.. Most of the time I leave it be....Like 99% of the time. But she wants to curl up in her cave(( her room)) and only extremely rarely go out when she pleases which is extremely rare at this point. Its as if I should take a picture of her when she comes out to she my daughter longer then a second Still claims no depressions.. still having her looked at.... they dont think depression but anxiety still... Whats going on here? She started on the medications and refuses them now saying it didnt work to help her rest at night ( she always hated medications period) She is still in denial that anything is wrong with her and after her yelling at me etc and me getting upset I said " yes there is something wrong you need help with anxiety or whatever is going on like a pysc hospital or dr.. she yelled NO and I said then your lazy. Ok wrong on my part I know. But Im just ugghh! Adding to this about my son... now again, he just cant handle the word "no" one of his main triggers. Even is we say no with an explanation, no with a later time and why.. still doesn't work. When we dont say no and word around it not now, hey about this or that instead etc it still doesn't work!!!!! His his way or no way, still refuses any wrong he does, blames us even if he did something, demands,threatens, etc. He just cant and or wont handle anything but his way! Everything he gets he breaks on purpose or accident no matter the cost the same day or next!!! :O Ugghhh Bahumbug!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!