I'm up at this ridiculous time of night and can't sleep. Was really groggy and on my way to bed when I got a call from younger difficult child: my neighbor across the street (the one who looks after my dogs when I'm gone) was killed in a car accident tonight. Just visited with him this evening. I'm sure he'd been drinking but that doesn't make the news any easier to take. He was a very good friend of older difficult child. I talked to older difficult child; he will be here tomorrow in time for breakfast. So now, instead of sleeping while I need to I'm wide awake. In addition, daughter in law's granmother died yesterday and difficult child 2 had hemorrhoid surgery Thursday. So we are not doing so well here. I hope that's our 3 for awhile.