I have an adopted 5 yr old daughter. She was born drug addicted to meth. She displays some ODD behaviors, sometimes she seems bi-polar. I have been trying to get some help for her since she was three and I am getting no where. It is very frustrating. I have read about the neuro-pych?? don't know what that is or where I can get someone qualified to diagnose/help, not to mention pay for this help. I have already spent quite abit on useless "sessions". My health insurance will only sent to a marriage/family therapist. She is a very difficult child and requires lots of attention, she can't play normally by herself, like with dolls. She does puzzles and colors. I need professional advice. She wets her pants alot, I believe it is attention related. I have had her since she was four months old, but at 4 months, I don't believe she was held while fed. She went from the hospital to foster care and was taken away from the foster mother. Bio mom did display ODD behavior. Can anyone provide advice/ direction/ help???