I have this CFT meeting tomorrow at noon, with the therapist that we are using and the psychiatrist from the hospital. They told me this is for the after care for difficult child to decide what is the best placement for him. I'm looking for any advise as to what should and will happen at this meeting? I have been told to really emphasize on the fact that we cannot have him live here. No one has really told me what is really entailed at this meeting. So I am turning to all of you for advise on this. Were not sure as to what will be asked of us?? Just nervous about this as I feel horrible stating that I don't want difficult child living here. I feel horrible for difficult child and am willing to stick it out for his sake but not willing to have him in my home.