I have a brilliant and talented eighteen year old daughter who was in a small buddist high school for three years living with relatives in another state. At that school she flourished with meditation and martial arts and the rigor or their schedule. She was super excited abut attending a small art college and visited and enrolled in one in another state, a bit closer to us her family. But in-between then she stayed with her 24 year old sister for six weeks, and I think started using a lot of pot, and going downhill. She went off to college and begged to be allowed to come back after just one week, saying she didn't like it and had made a mistake. Now she is back to living in the studio with her sister, fighting with each other Im afraid, not answering my texts, smoking too much pot again, and trying with difficulty and I think very low self confidence to get a job. She seems to not leave the house most of the time. She won't reply to my texts and Im deeply worried for her. I have stage four cancer, and desperately want to see her more and see her thrive. She seems depressed and confused about her future, and unable to handle a regular school after the very alternative nature of her previous two schools. ADVISE???? Up in arms here and sick with worry about her, my tow daughters relationship, her mental health, her future, how we can best support her without enabling her.