My 19 year old had been battling anxiety and depression for 5 years now. She has tried most medications and refuses therapy. It started at age 14 when she was diagnosed with a carcinoid tumor.After she was medically cleared she returned to school and was beaten by a new girl in school. After that she started shutting down. She was institutionalized once which seemed to make things worse. She graduated from high school using home bound program because she could not make it through class. Now she works 12 hours a week and spends days locked in room texting and watching you tube. She has no friends and no interests. Today her Doctor of two years said he gives up. She needs to want help. I am terrified for her future and don,t know how to help. Tough love? I am trying to stay calm I feel she resents me because I have been battling breast and cervical cancer myself. It takes attention from her.