They've been together for a year and 4 months. That's amazing for two difficult children! She spent the night at a friend's house and apparently he was so lonely, he texted or called her too much, and said something stupid and she said she's just had it, and that she didn't feel the same way any more about him. I'm amazed they put up with one another so long. He was in such a tizzy that he was hyperventilating, and wanted me to take her to her girlfriend's house immediately and I asked him if she was okay, thinking maybe she'd tried to do something horrid like kill herself. But he just had to get there that instant ... I had him take a clonidine first. I sat in the car while they talked outside her friend's house--mostly he cried, and I could read his lips--"I'm so sorry." Pitiful. Painful. Now he's at a guy-friend's house and I ma on my way to pick him up. This is going to be rough.