Today, she never came down early - just ran to the car after easy child and I were waiting to leave. She was wearing short shorts. WHere we live it was probably 20 degrees F. COLD. I made her go and change and she slammed the car door. The perfect way to start the day.
Last night, she asked if a guy friend could stop by the house tonight. We have told her in the past we were open to that, but this is a kid that is probably a bigger difficult child than she is. She has been talking about him for a while, she says they are just good friends. And she is friends with his girl friend. But she didn't ask to invite him and her. Luckily, she got asked to babysit tonight, so we don't have to voice a decision.
This is the same "friend" who got "engaged" to his 9th grade girl friend because she thought she was pregnant. Turned out to be a false alarm. And, by looking on his fb page, I know that she knows he smokes pot, or likes to say he does to brag about being stoned.
Just the type of guy I want hanging out at my house. I am afraid she is going to go down the same path as her biomom, with drugs, pregnancy, etc. I could just scream. SHe doesn't see any connection to what is wrong with hanging out with him... "because she is just friends with him" and she isn't going to do anything "stupid". I really think she has a crush on him... as a couple weeks ago she was bragging that he gave her three hugs at school... when I mentioned his pregnant girlfriend... she just acted like it was no big deal.
All these red flags... and she can't see them... KSM
Last night, she asked if a guy friend could stop by the house tonight. We have told her in the past we were open to that, but this is a kid that is probably a bigger difficult child than she is. She has been talking about him for a while, she says they are just good friends. And she is friends with his girl friend. But she didn't ask to invite him and her. Luckily, she got asked to babysit tonight, so we don't have to voice a decision.
This is the same "friend" who got "engaged" to his 9th grade girl friend because she thought she was pregnant. Turned out to be a false alarm. And, by looking on his fb page, I know that she knows he smokes pot, or likes to say he does to brag about being stoned.
Just the type of guy I want hanging out at my house. I am afraid she is going to go down the same path as her biomom, with drugs, pregnancy, etc. I could just scream. SHe doesn't see any connection to what is wrong with hanging out with him... "because she is just friends with him" and she isn't going to do anything "stupid". I really think she has a crush on him... as a couple weeks ago she was bragging that he gave her three hugs at school... when I mentioned his pregnant girlfriend... she just acted like it was no big deal.
All these red flags... and she can't see them... KSM