I don't know what to do anymore, everything was happy and normal during the early years. Now I only see him when he comes home to shower or sleep. It started around the beginning of middle school when he started dressing like punk, more so then the tight pants and old band shirts he would wear before. He has always been extremely talented in just about any form of art he picks up. Seriously extremely. I got him for a cheap guitar and lessons at an early age and before we knew it he had already outgrown his teacher! Ok here's where everything has gone to.. at 12 I found a pack of cigarettes hidden under his bed. Few weeks later I found a little bag with weed in it. This was still when I could actually try to punish him and not let him out. At 13 I found a bag with white powder, I assume it was cocaine but he never told me me and another pack of cigarettes. At 14he stated dating a young lady who said she was 16 but saw on her I.d she was 19. So I told him he wasn't allowed to see her again, he do his usual middle finger act then snuck out and got arrested with what the officer told me was over enough LSD for over 100 people. Any ways ways most of that over but I've noticed that since he has been home he stays up for days and pretends to sleep.. I can constantly smell alcohol on his breath and cigarettes that he blamed on his older friends he in a band with. I don't want to restrict him because I know he Can fly on his own.I'm worried sick about him and we live n Hollywood California so I can't stand thinking about something bad happening. Well thanks for reading and any help if u have had a similar experience really help thank you