difficult child court date is Tuesday. I contacted Biodad to ask him what was up and how things were going. He has avoided my phone calls and won't let difficult child talk to me after the court date. He eventually answered a text message. Told me everything was fine and to make sure I had cash for the court cost to pay for my mistakes. difficult child was arrested because husband caught him crawling out of the closet and confronted him and when he turned away
difficult child punched him in the eye. So husband called the police and difficult child was arrested. I called his biodad dad to come and bail him out. Of course I paid half of the cost. I was planning on paying, however its the way he goes about saying things. Then proceeds to tell me what about child support. I responded by telling him I think difficult child should become emancipated so I am not responsible. Not that I don't want him that I just can't afford his mistakes anymore. So to mess with difficult child even more he was like he is going to make sure difficult child knew I wanted to disown him. Which is not the case. And now I told husband that I wanted a divorce because he told me I was stupid and needed to be slapped so I would wake up and just let my son go. Well tell me how do I do that he is my son. And I blame the men is his life for the way he is his biodad and my husband. There is more to the story between difficult child and husband that I can not get into. husband was supporting difficult child bad habit in the hopes in difficult child opening up to him and husband helping him to quit. Needless to say the plan back fired and now I am paying the price. My life is so complicated right now and I don't know where to turn. I just want difficult child to get his life together and the other to guys to stop being idiots. And all it does it just mess with difficult child more and more and give him more power and the poor me and an excuse for the behavior. Thanks for reading. Sorry that I haven't given any advice to anyone I do read and pray for all of you. I just don't think I can give anyone answers when I don't have any for myself.
Thanks again,
JMS
difficult child punched him in the eye. So husband called the police and difficult child was arrested. I called his biodad dad to come and bail him out. Of course I paid half of the cost. I was planning on paying, however its the way he goes about saying things. Then proceeds to tell me what about child support. I responded by telling him I think difficult child should become emancipated so I am not responsible. Not that I don't want him that I just can't afford his mistakes anymore. So to mess with difficult child even more he was like he is going to make sure difficult child knew I wanted to disown him. Which is not the case. And now I told husband that I wanted a divorce because he told me I was stupid and needed to be slapped so I would wake up and just let my son go. Well tell me how do I do that he is my son. And I blame the men is his life for the way he is his biodad and my husband. There is more to the story between difficult child and husband that I can not get into. husband was supporting difficult child bad habit in the hopes in difficult child opening up to him and husband helping him to quit. Needless to say the plan back fired and now I am paying the price. My life is so complicated right now and I don't know where to turn. I just want difficult child to get his life together and the other to guys to stop being idiots. And all it does it just mess with difficult child more and more and give him more power and the poor me and an excuse for the behavior. Thanks for reading. Sorry that I haven't given any advice to anyone I do read and pray for all of you. I just don't think I can give anyone answers when I don't have any for myself.
Thanks again,
JMS