It's a fast question. But I don't know how to do short lol! My late dear father split his money three ways in his will. That money is in probate and not expected to go through until April or so last I heard. As you know, I felt the need to break off contact with sister who is rather close to my brother, the will executor. My brother is a law abiding, good person. Due to my admitted paranoia about my family of origin though I always wonder....can they hurt me again? This more pertains to my sister who is probably mad, but she is not the executor. Bottom line: can anyone keep me from what was given to me in the will? Thanks for anyone who answers. My husband says they cant and to stop worrying but I am a worrier by nature. My brother is kinder than kind, but I probably have PTSD thinking sister could influence what he does. Set me straight? I have a wedding to pay for now. Thank again. I am such a dork!!!