yes well husband and i had to reschedule our "cult" meeting. LOL ha no we're just us me and husband, a mess at times, trying to keep it together, unpacking his stupid little bag from the other night with-all of just a pair of underwear in it. his therapist was like i get it's hard there yet she needs you to man up so DO IT and stop u know you love her so control that anger and flee to run. your in it for the long haul.
easy child well husband escorted her to pysch doctor which she was dxd with 400 bucks i owe later exactly what i said DEPRESSION. yes i'm going to school to become a therapist by the way. this one was a slam dunk. MWM yes shes my bio mix up little girl with the defiance level of her difficult child and her Mom. let's be honest a tractor trailor couldnt' take me out LOL.
long day indeed. she's starting zoloft tmrw. as per dr. she agreed. appointment in 2 weeks follow up, therapist in week and a half once medications kick in. and court in march 31st.
what does she have to say not a whole lot. she's in pain bigtime. cried on way, cried there, on way home. just alot of crying and pain and realizations about her "good buddies" that assisted with the stealing than fled so quick your head could spin as wel as her best friends Mom who she thought adored her bad mouthed her and also said her bff cant' hang with-her anymore shes' a "bad" influence. Let's not even go there.
i guess healing comes in all forms. i think we're all in it healing mode it's going to be a bumpy ride, with a whole lotta pot holes yet i think this was a good thing to happen in hindsight let the courts hold her responsible for her actions. i have done my best with both children, made my mistakes where i have as well all do. made the best decisions at the times i made those decisions and i'm not going Occupational Therapist (OT) let my mom bring me down this time. i almost did than i looked in the mirror and said no way no how will i let this get me now. i've come way too far.
so, husband came thru again my knight in shining armor in his black tahoe coming home work apron still wrapped around him to put her in the truck. she def. got our attention. i know where she is right now i was there myself at a teen 13 years old could care less made bad choices. i didn't get arrested or anything crazy and mine was from an abusive father yet i get the thought process.
so she's hurting now and let her because she should gotta get it out one way or another. her best friend just text her and stated how she isnt' allowed to talk to her or hang out with-her anymore due to this. another oversight on that mom's part. her kids been doing worse and is the one who enlightened easy child's on the way of the world here in this town. it old easy child let it all blow over, pay your dues, you made a really bad choice. time will heal all.
yet a vacation is what husband and i really need.
i never thought i'd see the day that my kid was being held by police i gotta admit while im standing there with-my other kid who was just released from a hospital short time ago. def. not what i saw before i had kids. i guess most of us could say that.