is getting her permit today. we are going after school. shes very excited. me i am yet i dont' know i have alot of mixed feelings about it, shocking lol. she's almost 18 and i get she's going to drink with-her friends when out. i did it at that age, i think most of the adults i know now did it at that age. yet i just logged into her facebook and saw all her picture's and i'm bugged by them. she's back with the creepy boyfriend she was with before. the one who smokes pot, drinks and school said is "trouble". her attitude has def been worse since she's back with-him. and there are pics of her and him at his house with-his parents. his parents with whom i had a huge argument with-mos. ago. their really nutty too just like he is. long story why i argued with-them. it's a grose story. i was out for the day with-difficult child and i returned home was cooking dinner for me and difficult child and dog came out with-something in his mouth from the bathroom garbage. yea it was a condom. i flipped out completely. went to his parents house to tell them and tell them it's unacceptable that him and her are doing that in my house and they told me i was nuts their just kids etc . anyway so there she is with him and his parents in pics. than other pics of her at parties beer in hand. i'm just bugged out a bit. i know condom story was grose. husband and i survived that trauma a year ago. he said ok babe at least she's being safe. i said safe in our home?? grose never again. she was punished etc. i feel like great let me get the kid a permit, than a car so she can drink and have sex in her car that we're buying. am i wrong here?? just being an over reactive mom?