Son called and wanted to come home and shower. Translation: let me come home and lay around and then get money from you for drugs and alcohol. I offered to bring him food because I know he hasn't eaten. But he declined the food and wanted ten dollars. Guess that's enough to get take the edge off. I said no, hung up, and turned off my phone. In the past, I would have felt so bad because it's Thanksgiving and he has no food. Well, I offered food and now it's Happy Thanksgiving to ME.