Just really noticed something today in our household. You know, one of those "lightbulb" moments. I realized that difficult child is finally stabilized on his medications. No major meltdowns for a while now (shhh, don't let the JINX hear that). He still has to know the WHY of my answers to his questions and will sometimes argue with me if the reason seems unjustified or "wrong" to him but I can handle that becasue he eventually drops it. He still talks back SOMETIMES but then usually walks away and apparently thinks about it because then he comes back and apologizes. Yes, I said apologizes. I didn't even realize I was in heaven because . . . . . (enter dramatic pause here) easy child/difficult child is getting more difficult child every day. He takes everything very personally (as a criticism) all of a sudden and becomes defensive over every little comment. He's snippy and pushes buttons and has become sooooo selfish, rigid, literal, etc. I have asked therapist (PhD psychologist) to do some assessments to figure out exactly what I'm dealing with NOW. Here I go again! UGHHHH My kids have switched bodies!