guess all I can ask for now is prayers

Discussion in 'The Watercooler' started by muttmeister, Sep 21, 2012.

  1. muttmeister

    muttmeister Well-Known Member

    Finally got a diagnosis for my mother; it is espohageal cancer. She is too old and weak for surgery or chemo so we probably should hope that her heart stops before it has time to advance too much. Hopefully, God has a plan.
  2. CrazyinVA

    CrazyinVA Well-Known Member Staff Member

    I'm so sorry. Sending prayers up for strength, and peace. <3
  3. ThreeShadows

    ThreeShadows Quid me anxia?

    Oh, Mutt! I'm so sorry.
  4. buddy

    buddy New Member

    Sending love and prayers. Very sorry for her and you.
  5. recoveringenabler

    recoveringenabler Well-Known Member Staff Member

    I'm so sorry. Sending prayers and hugs for you.........
  6. Californiablonde

    Californiablonde Well-Known Member

    I am so very sorry for the news. My prayers are with you and your family.
  7. Marcie Mac

    Marcie Mac Just Plain Ole Tired

    So sorry Mutt

  8. Calamity Jane

    Calamity Jane Well-Known Member

    Sorry, Mutt. I hope she has access to excellent palliative care since she's too weak for the treatment. One day at a time, we're all here for you. Hugs.
  9. tiredmommy

    tiredmommy Site Moderator

    I'm so sorry, sending prayers your way.
  10. Jody

    Jody Active Member

    I am very sorry. Sending hugs and prayers right now.
  11. KTMom91

    KTMom91 Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry. Sending hugs and prayers.
  12. StressedM0mma

    StressedM0mma Active Member

    So very sorry. Sending prayers for you both.
  13. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    My heart with both of you and my hopes are for a comfortable time period prior to her passing. You will be in my thoughts and prayers...both of you. DDD
  14. DaisyFace

    DaisyFace Love me...Love me not

    I'm so sorry to hear this! Sending prayers...
  15. trinityroyal

    trinityroyal Well-Known Member

    Mutt, I am so very sorry. Sending prayers to all of you.
  16. donna723

    donna723 Well-Known Member

    Oh Mutt, I am so very sorry! Sending many hugs and prayers for your mom, you, and the family.
  17. Fran

    Fran Former desparate mom

    I'm so sorry Mutt. I know you mentioned her short term memory is poor. Does she grasp her diagnosis? How are you both? I'm hoping she is pain free and will enjoy the time she has.
  18. mom_to_3

    mom_to_3 Active Member

    I'm very sorry to hear this too. I hope she can remain pain free and you are able to bring comfort to each other during this next phase in her life. Very caring thoughts coming your way.
  19. Fran

    Fran Former desparate mom

    Mutt, I forgot to mention to ask Dr. for hospice. They are wonderful. They are not just for the end. It's meant for end of life care. My f i l gets hospice and it has allowed them to stay in their own home. An aide comes each morning, medications are brought to them, a nurse visits. They helped me with both of my parents at the end but they can be brought in much earlier. The goal being comfort to the patient and family and eliminating hospital stays. If she falls, you call hospice and they come to the house. They are the best patient care
    program I have ever seen.
  20. Hopeless

    Hopeless ....Hopeful Now

    Very sorry and sending you prayers and hugs