Well, I tought we were going to have a good trip. Wednesday and yesterday went very well. We went out shopping today and it started great, but I could see things were starting to bother her, and I couldn't get her away from it, and then it happened. She lost it. In the middle of forever21. And she stormed off. Normally my husband handles difficult child when she does this but we were with my mom, and she tore after her and ripped into her telling her that she can treat me like **** but she can't treat her like that. Yeah just what we needed. That totally sent difficult child over the top. We have been home for over an hour, and difficult child is not calming. She is threatening to run away, being spiteful, and defiant. And, then I started crying because I was just upset, then my mom starts yelling at me, telling me she won't ever do anything again. I just wanted to make it through one holiday. Now I remeber why I want to be home alone. I hate that no one understands what we are dealing with. Now, I have to keep an eye out and an ear out to make sure she doesn't leave my mmoms house. I think she just ran. I think my husband just went after her. ****!! I can't keep doing this.