He didn't go

Discussion in 'The Watercooler' started by hearts and roses, Oct 11, 2011.

  1. hearts and roses

    hearts and roses Mind Reader

    Passive/Aggressive behavior wins out again. H didn't make it to the therapist appointment with me. I waited and waited, finally called him again and he was still on the job, no intention of rushing home.

    I'm feeling a bit disheartened and disappointed. Thanks for all the positive thoughts and juju-it's helping me to keep the faith that all will work out in the end, whatever that may mean.
  2. Liahona

    Liahona Guest

    I am so sorry. What are you going to do next?
  3. tiredmommy

    tiredmommy Site Moderator

    I'm sorry. Don't rush to any decisions tonight or tomorrow... take time to figure out what is best for you to do, {{{Hugs}}}
  4. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    Sending you my most caring and supportive hugs. I'm sorry. Hope your therapist was able to help you tonight. DDD
  5. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful


    Try to give it a bit until your emotions calm down before deciding what you want to do next.
  6. Liahona

    Liahona Guest

    They are all right sorry for asking.
  7. Shari

    Shari IsItFridayYet?

    Hugs. I'm so sorry.
  8. HaoZi

    HaoZi Guest

    I'm sorry hon. By this point my gut reaction would be to tell him that if he doesn't tell her, I will - and with no uncertain terms or sugar coating and that if left to me to break the news he best not complain about how it happens or when.
  9. buddy

    buddy New Member

    I am so very sorry. Gosh, wish we could give you a real life hug.
  10. hearts and roses

    hearts and roses Mind Reader

    Thanks all. We did talk again after I got home. Again, I told him he needed to speak with his mom, he agreed. I offered to help him create a sort of script to help him stick to the key points and stay on task. Sadly, he looked ready to cry. Despite my fury inside, I felt sorry for him. Ultimately, he is the one who needs to adress this. I WILL do it if he cannot but I'm really trying to get him to put on his big boy pants and do it himself.

    Our therapist was disappointed he didn't show but not entirely surprised. At the end of the hour she said she kept hoping for a knock on the door and that it would be H. She's a dear. She suggested a script and I think someone here did also- great idea. We shall see. Thanks again.
  11. HaoZi

    HaoZi Guest

    Hmmm... does your psychiatrist do home appts? Like say... when he's not expecting visitors and can't escape?