Our house is in constant uproar. Are any of you guys yellers? I feel like all we do is yell at difficult child. Then we are playing with the little ones because they are not in trouble. Aside from not speaking to anyone in the house, how can my husband and I stop the madness? I know that we will always have frustrations because of difficult child, but something has to change. It won't be ong before the babies are affected by this. They seem to take it all in stride now, but I would just about kill for one night in our house where there is not conflict! How do we accomplish this without losing total control over difficult child?