I can no longer tolerate being married to a difficult child. My husband and my actual 12 yr old difficult child do not get along and my husband has decided he is no longer going to do ANYTHING! The house is literally falling apart around us. I quit my job 7+ years ago when I had my youngest son and have been a stay at home mom since. My question is this - how can I get out of this horrible situation? My husband refuses to leave. We cannot afford two households but this is so dysfunctional it is killing me and not good for my children. I have not worked in close to 8 years and am no longer up to par in my field (technology). I also cannot work traditional hours because I CANNOT LEAVE difficult child ALONE. Not to mention all the school breaks and days off. So what are my options? What can I do? Not to mention my difficult child is so out of control and belligerent. He is currently talking 2 mg of Intuniv only which I doubt is really doing anything. I feel like just running away. I need a plan and I am realizing I cannot just suck it up and stay in this situation. Any advice is welcome. Thank you.