Sorry for all the new threads. I've been alone and lost for so long I have a lot of questions. I have 2 children. Difficult child is 13 with ADHD and anxiety. Very high maintenance. Steals and lies. From me and his sister. Has really hurt her and she dislikes him most of the time. She is 16 and really just a laid back good kid. She has her moments but she generally stays out of trouble and is very trustworthy. She's had the same job for over a year and earns mostly As in school. She's currently homeschooled due to being violently assaulted at her public school and experiencing some ptsd and anxiety over that. How do I help her while helping him? She believes there isn't anything wrong with her brother. She believes he is fooling everyone and really just isn't being disciplined. No matter what discipline takes place she is unsatisfied and feels he is the "favorite" and that he gets all my attention and she at times I feel hates him for it. She says sometimes she wants to move out or that we should send him away. She feels distrustful and victimized by him. I do too! He does get up to no good often. He takes her food, her cash, her computer if she doesn't hide it. Recently he found her debit card and used it for video game purchases. How can I help these two have a relationship and help my daughter feel she is loved even when he requires so much energy?