hi
so i have a question. i have an upcoming "thing" this Saturday and i'm a bit edgy about it. it's boyfriend's oldest daugther with whom is putting on a play.
His ex (she's a nightmare) will be there, her partner, his kids, my kids, him and I.
The last time that we were all together somewhere she made a scene, it's what she is famous for. She tried to start some type of argument wtih boyfriend. The last time we went to kids play togther she purposely called boyfriend over and said come here i have to talk to you. NOw granted that was almost a year ago and yes he went (big mistake on his part) I stood alone feeling let's just say a little jerky.
So i have warned him that if she pulls that and he goes I'm outta there. no words, no discussion I will simply take keys my kids and leave.
I don't want to cause a scene infront of easy child, or difficult child yet i can't stand this woman. literally. she has made our relationship so hard and difficult. it is almost as if she doesn't want him (she wants woman now) yet no one else should have him. She's controlling possessive, calls and texts way too much, etc. So, I often invision umm let's just say drop kicking her!!!
So, if she starts anything on Sat. how i am feeling as of late i'm giong to blow. I can only take so much than when i go it's bad, it's simply ugly. Yet handling myself that way would only show her she got me, right??
ok any advice here???????????????????????//////
so i have a question. i have an upcoming "thing" this Saturday and i'm a bit edgy about it. it's boyfriend's oldest daugther with whom is putting on a play.
His ex (she's a nightmare) will be there, her partner, his kids, my kids, him and I.
The last time that we were all together somewhere she made a scene, it's what she is famous for. She tried to start some type of argument wtih boyfriend. The last time we went to kids play togther she purposely called boyfriend over and said come here i have to talk to you. NOw granted that was almost a year ago and yes he went (big mistake on his part) I stood alone feeling let's just say a little jerky.
So i have warned him that if she pulls that and he goes I'm outta there. no words, no discussion I will simply take keys my kids and leave.
I don't want to cause a scene infront of easy child, or difficult child yet i can't stand this woman. literally. she has made our relationship so hard and difficult. it is almost as if she doesn't want him (she wants woman now) yet no one else should have him. She's controlling possessive, calls and texts way too much, etc. So, I often invision umm let's just say drop kicking her!!!
So, if she starts anything on Sat. how i am feeling as of late i'm giong to blow. I can only take so much than when i go it's bad, it's simply ugly. Yet handling myself that way would only show her she got me, right??
ok any advice here???????????????????????//////