After lots of reading of these threads & pulling my Explosive Child book from the shelf & figuring I may end up doing some serious changing to the way I handle my difficult child, I had this question: What do you guys do when people question your parenting methods, especially if it's family you're child(ren) spend time with??? I am anticipating this from my cousin (MSW, child therapist) and mother. We will soon be moving close to them & I get alot of direction in my parenting from them both. I have looked to them for advice before so I've opened that door myself. Input greatly appreciated!!!!!