So my daughter turns up, crying, sad, wanting her old life back. Claims she wants to kill herself and that she cant cope any longer without the support of her family. We told her again that we would support her going to rehab, to get help,,,,but we wont support anything else. She then asked if she could borrow money $600, because he flat mate has moved out and she owes him. My husband deals with it....because I cant. Our 12 year old son dissolves into tears when she leaves....he said he misses her, is scared for her and he doesn't want to dislike her anymore. My heart breaks for him. I am left so angry with her...yet so sad. How do I stay strong for my family?