hi,so as many of you know I had a play today, boyfriend's easy child. His gay ex wife was going to be there and I was just a tad bit nervous.
She ofcourse text him all morning long, she called twice to remind him of the time and to "warn" him to be on time to it. ugh. (he's soo gotta learn he doesn't have to answer to her anymore). I guess after 18 years it takes time.
So, anyway i went looking like sh*t ofcourse, make up was not helping today and i smiled alot. I acted gracious and made a point of saying hi as she came in and completely ignored me, easy child and difficult child. I went out of my way to be nice, and followed everyone's advice.
It was better, better for me, my kids. I usually do act that way but as of late was getting fed up with her constant interruptions into our life, and constant phone calls.
Yet as many of you taught me here, taking the high ride is much better as is realizing it is up to him to control her aggressive ways. She feels that they shoud still be best friends.
anyway thanks guys
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