I did not hear back from anyone at school after their meeting that SpEd Director was supposedly going to go have. difficult child woke up this morning extremely anxious. He didn't want to go to school cause he knew he'd be bad, no matter what he does, he's just a bad boy. Then he said the para told him that I am not allowed to come to school anymore. Then he fell apart. I do not want this behavior transferred to the new morning para, as well. I did not want this behavior brought into this school year. And now it's here. I did not hear back from the school on what was done to address this. I made a few phone calls, difficult child pulled himself together and got ready for school, came out when he was ready, and I said "you know, the school was supposed to call me and they have not. I don't think you'r better go until we know what is going to happen here." He said (its obvious that he would really rather go to school but he didn't push the issue). Then he asked me if he was bad. I said no. I said 'you have to learn to control yourself, and you can, but you need people to help you, not push you until you lose control.' He said "that sounds like you are saying i'm bad". I said "no, I'm not saying you are bad. I'm saying you have to work extra hard and need help, and we need to figure out where to get that." He said ok and asked if he'll be able to go Monday. We'll see, buddy, we'll see.