I am so tired of fighting for IEP's or 504s. I'm not even sure what I'm doing. I have a good Advocate, but I want to be more in "the know." I don't understand the laws and I'm stressed out and so tired of doing this that I wish my daughter would just let me pull her out of school. They have good public schools online and she could go at her own pace, but she is such a social kid, she'd be miserable without her friends, her sports, her dances etc. Ugh. If she fails, she won't even be allowed to go to them. I'm all angered out and just feel apathetic. I asked if I could sit in on the testing (me and hub) and they looked at me like I had asked a crazy question. Then hub said, "Well, can we see the tests when you're done testing her? Can we see the questions and her answers?" OF COURSE NOT! What are they trying to hide? I'm so glad that daughter is out of t own with her volleyball game for the next three days because I can hardly look at her without crying, knowing that the schools really don't care about her. Of course, I CAN'T cry. I have to put on a good front. I really can't wait until she graduates. That's my last kid, my last school fight, my last problem. I only hope she can graduate if she doesn't get supports... I don't know why I posted. I'm up for suggestions, but I doubt there is anything hub and I have not tried. I think I wanted to vent with others who understand . Thanks.