I wasnt going to ask question here anymore but something came up and I feel I really need to ask someone who might know, you all. Yes, I need a lawyers help but this is Sat for one! My son for those of you who dont remember or know, is now 8 years old, switching medications and them to be soon upped, diagnose is ADHD and Sleep Issues but he also has ODD but Dr wants to wait to see if the medications help before diag him with it on paper because ADHD can have same symptoms as ODD. Still getting further testing done. Current pills are Clonidine o.1 mg total 2 pills a day ( One pill half in am,half at lunch and one full for sleep, violence and in aide with the ADHD also takes Daytrana Patch 10mg but not helping so next visit Dr said upped to 15mg. Anyways in a nutshell for his past/present= violence, threats, attitude flips like a light switch from happy to angry still, adhd is pretty much all the symptoms that I wont write you all know them. And all the times I wrote. But the times hes in a great mood and the pills are helping, he is the most fun, talkative,loving,smart child who you would swear was his opposite twin! ( 2 for one special ha sorry Im just kind off in panic mode and trying to relax.. did I mentioned I not only have some white hair but white hair on my eyebrows? Yikes... Im not even 40 yet!!!!) Heres the question, my sister is just like my son ( not adhd though) but undiagnosed and will be moving home soon. How will this work? Im already stressed and my hands are full with my two kids, ill dad and grandpa and still looking for work. Yes, two houses still. Yes I have put my kids first. But my sis has no where to go, no job etc but her and my son are the same. Im scared their dad will go for custody once my sis has an issue. My kids tell us everything that happens ( at least they tell him everything I do) so what can I do? Theres no money to get her own place. I love her and the rest of my family but my kids are first.. Im still trying to find the right everything for them first. Also, this house still belongs to grandpa and he says she will live her. I have no where to go and If I move my kids out, I lose this house that was promised to me for my kids upon the passing of granpa.