I am a single parent, got divorced 10 years ago, my ex husband left the country and has little or no contact with my daughter. She is 18, the problems started with her first year of high school, ranging from petty theft, to theft from a shop out of which a court case followed and "rehabilitative counselling". Problems got worse year on year with her smoking marijuana, bunking school regularly - throwing drunken parties at my house during school hours, bullying and hitting other girls in the school, very verbally abuse towards teachers. She ended up in hospital in 2013 after basically smoking way to much weed and taking in too much alcohol simultaneously - she ended up in casualty not knowing who she was or who i was. This lasted about 10 hours - they suggested i put her in a soft rehab which involved therapy, counselling and life skills. She was there for 3 weeks and came out with the answer that she now knows why she is a "f..up" and its as a result of me?? They diagnosed her with borderline personality disorder and gave anti-depressants and mood stabilizers - she refused to take them as "the problem isn't with me its with you". Since then to date i am subjected to being called an "F...ing C..t" and being told she hates me and only lives there as she has no choice, she screams and launches at me physically , these episodes happen whenever i disagree with something or call her up on something or just when she happens to not have had a good day for other reasons. I've gotten to the point that I am scared of going home from work and dread waking up in the morning. She won't see anyone and won't take any medication. I'm at my wits end as i feel like running away........I'm a nervous wreck all the time and becoming depressed myself which is affected my new job badly.