My life turned upside down 3 years ago when my son, then 18 was arrested at school for selling drugs. He had just turned 18 and was months from graduating high school. Long story short, things have not gotten better. Another arrest... still on drugs. We have paid for him to go to an outpatient rehab, but he said that he is "screwed up" and that rehab does nothing for him. We have also paid for him to see a psychiatrist, but I think he mostly used him to score ativan. I have attended some Naranon meetings in the past, but my husband refuses to go. Kicking your child out of the house seems so drastic, but he is not getting better. He does not go to school, and sleeps til noon. I work at 5:45 in the am, and he wakes me up with his walking around the house til all hours of the morning. My husband is not willing to support me. He thinks that we need to keep him safe. I think we are keeping him sick.