My 32 year old former difficult child turned easy child called and asked if he could move in for a bit. I sat on it for a minute and finally texted him this morning that i would have to ponder a minute about what conditions I would have to put in place for this to work. He texted back that he had found a place. He is doing very well in the job dept. He is now an RN after many rocky years of being an adult difficult child. It is time for him to be on his own. O.K. so why do I still feel that mommy tug that wants to take care of all her babies and at the same time WHEEEEH relief?